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What does it take to walk away from a life that looks perfect on paper?

In this deeply personal memoir, Calling It Off: Memoir of an Almost Bride, readers are invited inside the unraveling of an engagement that once felt certain—and the quiet courage it required to call it off.

Beyond the wedding dress and expectations lies a story about identity, intuition, and the cost of sticking it out when something doesn’t feel right. With raw honesty and sharp humor, Katherine explores the emotional aftermath of choosing herself over a future with the now Mr. Ex.

This is not simply a story about a messy, broken engagement. It’s a story about listening to the whisper before it becomes a scream. About rebuilding self-trust. About choosing alignment over approval.

This one's for anyone who has ever faced a crossroads about their career, identity, who or where they call home. Calling It Off offers reassurance that walking away is not failure if you can start walking towards the life you've always wanted. 

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Recent Reviews 

 

 The reviews are still pouring in and Calling It Off: Memoir of an Almost Bride is resonating with readers of all ages and inspiring others to take a hard look at what they want from life.

 

★★★★★

 

Raw, heartfelt, and humorous,

Katherine walks us through this intimate experience, humbly shedding light on the lessons learned and bringing hope to anyone who has teetered on that edge of ‘what the F do I do’.

— CarrĂ© Otis, supermodel, activist, and author of "Beauty Disrupted: A Memoir"

 

★★★★★

 

“As someone who has navigated a loveless marriage, divorce, and several 'not meant to be' relationships, I connected deeply with this book. The realness and emotions Katherine provokes makes Calling It Off a must-read.”

— Raina O'Dell, bestselling author, BARE

 

★★★★★

 

“Calling It Off is more than just a personal story; it's a testament to the resilience of the human–and particularly female–spirit. Katherine's vulnerability shines through as she explores the complex emotions of grief, doubt, and ultimately, self-discovery. With each chapter, I found myself nodding along, recognizing the universal truths in her experiences as a woman in love.”

— Mariette M., contemporary art advisor

 

★★★★★

 

Courage, Intuition, Self-Trust

“What makes Calling It Off truly special is its message of hope. Katherine Woller doesn't shy away from the pain and messiness of heartbreak, but she also illuminates the path towards healing and self-love. She reminds us that even with a broken heart, we have the strength within to move forward, to redefine ourselves, and to create a future filled with joy and authenticity.” — Jamie T.

 

★★★★★

 

Wonderful!

"Not only will I be the first in line to buy several copies for myself, but I can think of at least three of my clients who will be reading it as well!” — Charlotte L., marriage and family therapist

 

★★★★★

 

A truly raw and compelling story

"Absolutely loved this raw and compelling story. I'm not typically a good reader, i'm much better at listening to audiobooks, but I literally could not put this book down. Katherine's authenticity shines through the pages, and her storytelling truly transports you into her shoes. The story may seem niche, but the overarching themes are applicable in many different walks of life and situations. Highly recommend this book to anyone working towards living a more authentic and self realized life. Love love love." — Amazon Review

   

★★★★★

 

Honest, Raw, and Deeply Relatable

"Calling It Off is a beautifully written and deeply honest reflection on love, truth, and the difficult choices we sometimes have to make. Katherine’s storytelling is real and relatable, touching on experiences many of us have faced in some form... A thought-provoking and well written read—highly recommended!" — Amazon Review

 

★★★★★

 

Fun, exciting and from the heart 

"I related so deeply to the book! Katherine’s story really speaks to all women in a way that we can each connect to some aspect or situation she describes. She made me laugh, she made me cry, a couple of times, and ultimately she left me hopeful for many happy endings to come." — Amazon Review

 

★★★★★

 

The Power of Walking Away: A Woman’s Journey toward Authentic Living

"Move over Eat Pray Love
This book is a beacon of hope for anyone standing at the crossroads of self-doubt and self-discovery a testament that it is never too late to choose yourself, trust your instincts, and seek a love that truly aligns with your soul. Katherine’s journey of personal transformation beautifully reflects the ancient ideal of arĂȘte, the pursuit of excellence in both character and life. With remarkable courage, she walks away from a future that she doesn’t want, embracing the unknown in search of something real and meaningful... More than just a story of self-improvement, this book is an engaging, thought-provoking exploration of what it means to live authentically. Filled with humor and honesty, its pages will keep you entertained while inspiring you to listen to your own inner voice. A true page-turner that empowers and uplifts!" — Amazon Review

Bestselling Author Katherine Rose Woller

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Book Press

Yahoo!Creators

January 28, 2026

Valentine’s Day is just around the corner and single or not, here's a guide with suggestions on self-care and splurges of things you really want. "Best read for choosing yourself: Calling It Off: Memoir of an Almost Bride"

Read the full article here: "Screw Valentine’s Day—treat-yourself gifts that don’t need a plus-one"

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"Katherine Rose Woller’s memoir traces the emotional reality of calling off a wedding—and the clarity that followed. This isn’t a breakup exposĂ© or a cautionary tale; it’s a deeply honest look at listening to your intuition when the stakes are high and expectations are louder than your own voice. The result is a story about courage, self-respect, and redefining success on your own terms. It pairs especially well with a quiet night and zero external opinions. As someone who has also called off a wedding, I can't wait to read this book."

– Jill Schildhouse, Writer

(Yahoo)

 

Bold Journey

April 2, 2025

Bold Journey interviews Katherine Rose Woller on finding her purpose; decision-making with courage, self-love, and self-trust; and building an authentic brand.

On why she wrote the book: “When I couldn’t find what I was looking for, I knew I finally had a story to share, and the result of that inspiration is my book, Calling It Off: Memoir of an Almost Bride. I had found my purpose, and by sharing my story, I hope to challenge societal stigmas, and create a community where belonging is undeniable.”

Read the full interview: "Meet Katherine Rose Woller"

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“When I was clawing my way through the season of my failed engagement, I sought any resource that could make me feel seen, or even marginally less alone."

– Katherine Rose Woller

(Bold Journey)

 

The Daily Mail

March 2, 2025

“It might be a toxic marriage or a hated job, but you owe it to yourself — and others — to find the courage to call it quits.” 

"My biological clock had quietened down — I was focused on building a fulfilling life and relationship before I got pregnant.'" - KRW

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Fox 4

February 5, 2025

"Woller's mission is to further the conversation around marriage in the 21st century, empower women to choose themselves, and create a sense of belonging so that others in a similar situation don't feel so alone in the world of weddings to come."

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"I was looking for a source of hope. So, ultimately, hope is exactly what I want readers to take away. I hope every person sees some part of themselves reflected in these pages, and walks away braver, more empowered, and more confident in trusting their gut, prioritizing themselves, and pursuing the life they authentically desire"

– Katherine Rose Woller

 

The Source

February 3, 2025

"An 'almost bride' herself, Katherine Rose Woller, AB ’09, uses her hard-fought growth, honest reflection, and ultimately flawed human experience to highlight the realities of what it’s like to not just call off a wedding, but to choose yourself when you’ve reached a daunting crossroads." - Washington University in St. Louis

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Yahoo Finance

February 5, 2025

"By sharing her transformative journey through the fire of a failed engagement and back, Woller draws on the relatable yet profoundly stigmatized experience of walking away from what's expected of you. Woller's story, told with wit and grit, shows the importance of trusting your gut, stepping through fear, and living authentically."

Structure: "The three part memoir - Once Upon A Time, Let It Burn, and Ever After - brings the reader along for the twists and turns of Woller's engagement, wedding planning, and the nagging realization that she was wandering down a path that was not for her."

Read the full article: As Valentine’s Day Approaches, Bestselling Memoir Encourages Self-Love as Key to Thriving Relationships, Life

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Kirkus Reviews

February 3, 2025

Mom/Author Katherine Rose Woller dishes on her favorites: Emily BrontĂ« (author), Wuthering Heights (book), and her latest book Calling It Off "a personal take on calling off a wedding that goes beyond both the taboos and the Runaway Bride–type comedy associated with it
 Woller also takes on what happens afterward, emotionally and logistically, when one moves on with one’s life—including the particular question of when to start dating again."

Verdict: "Overall, her book provides a candid and insightful examination of an extraordinarily brave decision, along with plenty of useful observations that will help readers grappling with similar situations."

Read the full Kirkus Review here: "An often engaging examination of a life-changing decision."

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"...a candid and insightful examination of an extraordinarily brave decision..."

– Kirkus Review

 

Key Statistics for Calling It Off

#1 Bestseller in Family & Growth

#1 New Release in Spiritual Self Help

#1 New Release in Marriage & Long-term Relationships

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